大家對IQ(intelligence quotient智商)和EQ(emotion quotient 情商)這兩個(gè)詞一定不陌生吧?這兩種“商”在我們的生活中都起著很重要的作用,哪個(gè)低了都不是好事。不過,在這兩種“商”之外,現(xiàn)在又有學(xué)者提出了第三種“商”SQ(social quotient),你知道代表的是什么嗎?
Social quotient (SQ), first put forward by US scholar Daniel Goleman, refers to the ability to deal with social relations and follows in the style of the IQ (intelligence quotient) and EQ (emotion quotient) concepts. Goleman believes that interpersonal interaction exerts its great influence on our intelligence and other aspects of our lives.
社交商這個(gè)說法是由美國學(xué)者丹尼爾?戈?duì)柭紫忍岢鰜淼模傅氖侨藗兲幚砣穗H社交關(guān)系的能力,與智商(IQ)和情商(EQ)的理念相同。戈?duì)柭J(rèn)為人際交往對我們的智力以及生活的其它方面都會(huì)產(chǎn)生很大的影響。
Unlike IQ, which seems to be fixed after age five, all of us can work on skills like smiling or a positive attitude, traits commonly found in individuals with high social skills. Shy and extroverted people can similarly benefit from such efforts.
智商一般在5歲以后就基本定型了,但微笑、積極的社交態(tài)度等有效的社交技能是可以通過努力得到提高的。不管是害羞的人還是外向的人,都能從這樣的訓(xùn)練中有所收獲。
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